Cushy Chairs At The Bar...

Come have a :cocktail or two and talk the bartender, barely dressed :wink.

I'm a forutnate individual, yet a very UN fortunate individual, I have MANY life expereinces at my ripe ole age of 36 ~ mind you many are older than I am, however, it is amazing to me how they look to me for advise........call me "advise whore" okay :lol

In talking with many of my friends, they feel "inadequate" as women, to say the least, to me, personally, I find this HORRIFYING, as I only DREAM to be what these women offer in my life for just one day.

It takes a great deal for me to say this, as I don't "bond" well with anyone, I can count on one hand and still have extra fingers for the one's I'm talking about, FEMALE gender here okay alright already, men different story.......

The one's I can count on my fingers, and not even have to think of their names, the roll off the tip of my tongue, are TRUE FRIENDS, not fair weather friends, they are the one's that I have no problem meeting my parents, or calling my parents on a three way conversation and one or all are on the line with me and overwheleming my parents from all the voices, for my parents to state, "Jamie, must and obviously ignitiated this call".........

These women are the best women that only those out there wish could call friend..........I'm so lucky and even most of the times I don't even realize it........I love my girls........I'd lay my life down for my girls and their children.........I don't say that for many........

I'm truely a lucky woman, I have Speedbump, aka Shithead, aka Mr. Understanding, yet I also have Wobbie, Amy, Mama Kitty, T, L, Jen, Lori from NC and SuzyQ..................these women hold my heart and are what I THRIVE to be as a mother, a person, a most importantly a friend....

EVERY TIME I FIND MR. RIGHT MY HUSBAND SCARES HIM AWAY