In my frantic search to find the answers to the questions from Redbook Magazine that were posted last night, I ran across this article. So not to confuse anyone that these are my "own" ideas, I'm going to link the article!!!! :biggrin!!! *for those who haven't figured out my page, just run your mouse over the word "article" and click*
If you don't have time to read the article it is titled "Should We Invite Another Woman In Our Bed?".
Well being the type woman "I DON"T SHARE PERIOD NO QUESTIONS ASKED" if that is Speedbumps fantasy well that is as far as it is going to get with me...............He's MINE..........any man I've slept with is not a "shared option" either. Okay maybe one, but only shared on the situation as perferably "me absent". Yes he was that bad and kept trying to convince me how good he was....while I was on the phone!!! *shaking head* not great "reference material".
In the 10 questions "REDBOOK MAGAZINE" asked and answered, however, to keep things brief, I only posed questions.........one question was asked about "anal sex". Is this not a tabboo of sorts...everyone talks about it but in the end, no pun intended, is an exit only portion of the body and if anyone tries to enter well hello "epiderals aren't without perscription" material!!!! Think about it, women can give birth and feel no pain with epiderals so hey if you want anal sex you better come with *no pun intended* medication in hand, otherwise, never forget exit only baby!!!!
Now back to the article I've linked everyone too, does anyone fantasy about women in their bed???? Okay men whom are single, I know you do, but couples, do you want same sex "shows" for lack of a better word? And why just women on women ~ why is it okay for a man to get his fantasy and a woman if her fantasy is to have two men at the same time ~ mind you them not doing the exit only issue ~ but strickly to satisfy her ~ why do men have such a problem with that? Or is it....in the words of my favorite "boxer man" what's good for the goose isn't good for the gander???????
I personally have no desire for a woman or another man in my bed, I'm a huge flirt, but I'm very satisfied at home. No need to search further, however, I do have an overly active mind and ask more questions than I'm willing to hear the answers too :smile so to speak..............
Am slightly afraid to hear responses on this one, but hey, bring them on, I'm not afraid.....
EVERYTIME I FIND MR. RIGHT ~ MY HUBAND SCARES HIM AWAY
Hi Jamie,
Well Clive and I have had the discussion about inviting another woman into the bed. It was a very long discussion and the bottom line is that it takes trust and putting jealousy out the window. We haven't done it thus so far. I have always said that "if" I was no longer interested in sex he could take another under those circumstances but not with me in the bed also. That was also discussed once with my mother inlaw whilst on a walk. I have made no secret that I do have anal sex and I do enjoy it. Both of us have fantasised about the 3some and whether women like it or not it's supposed to be the top fantasy for a man. I certainly have had a desire for two men whether it will happen is a different matter. Yes Clive was hypocritical about it and I'm sure he'd put in his views on why if given the opportunity. Perhaps this subject would be a good one in newcool?. Let me know what you think? My motto is what is good for the goose is most definitely good for the ganda and he knows I feel that way about it.
I know very well how you don't like to get the answers to the questions and comments you make.... and i will give details on the oil if you want...
OMG OMG OMG Ms. Dr. Phil in my life!!!!! Gawd how I have missed you!!!!! I'm so glad you have posted and looked at my blog........I'll email you in a bit!!!! Know you and Clive are very much missed around here!!!!
Neither here nor there Jon, as far as the oils, ummmmmm remember I "nap" with ya hon..........I need no more vivid details *wicked smile*
Hey I offered vivid details and you said and i quote "TMI"
I would definitely try the two women thing....and yes, I'm single. My feelings about that are likeley to change if and when I get married or am in a committed relationship.
My woman is enough for me!
I guess it depends on how you view sex. If it's just the animalistic physical release, then the more the merrier. If you're making love, then one person is all you need. Preferably your sig-other or spouse. Nekkid, sweaty and ready to go.
Oh, and Jamie .. Patti's back!
WOW. What a topic. I think my man is the only one for me. He has never mentioned having another with us and I'm glad he hasnt. I would not go for that at all. And I do not wish to watch two men. I've been around gay people most of my life, my two best friends and their sigs, my aunt, my sister and her sig who is like my sister and a good family male friend. They dont offend me. I dearly love them, its just not for me. I like my tall hairy man with his daily growing bald spot!
Gurll-I didnt realize I was so missed. I'm in FW now, staying busy in the house, unpacking and turning it into a home instead of a bachelor pad.
Will post more later. The wallpapering in the laundry room needs finishing right now.
I'll stick with my short, balding fella. Like you, I don't share.
Since I am absolutely positive there will never be another guy in bed with the two of us, we won't be inviting another woman.
I think I know your vet. There is one on 377 just near the water tower. I pass it on my daily jaunt to Home Depot.
Okay... I really don't know what my answer to this would be... I've made out w/ a woman before and done some heavy pettin' etc... but there was never the option of taking her into bed w/ my man... I think I could quite possibly be a little to jealous to share my man w/ someone else... Too insucre too... I'd be thinkin' "What if he likes her better and leaves?"... So I'm thinking this would not happen in my sex life lol