So maybe "they" can answer my questions :biggrin. All I have to say is inquiring minds wanna know. Talk about going from one extreme to another on topic levels on this blog..........:lol
Keep reading if you are over 18 and brave enough to keep reading :smile
Okay during one of our most recent parties, we found out the term of Lesbian's about "packing". Okay LoisLane more found out about that, I was still in or at least trying to be, in coma land.........so I'll ask the question, "How can a Lesbian "Pack" anything?????
Now moving along.........strap on's and dildo's..........
In my sheltered minds eye, if sex requires a strap on and/or dido for delight, why not just go out and find a man??? I mean obviously in a heterosexual relationship a strap on is not an issue, well okay if it is, :lol, I'm sorry!! But vibrators in a heterosexual relationship tend to enhance situations, not speaking from experience of course :smile. But if you are a Lesbian, isn't that stating you want no part of a man??? So why want any form feeling object that feels like a man????
Yeah I know I'm clueless, but hey, I stirring up comments here and well I know I'll get them on this one :lol.
Now before someone passes across my blog and has no idea of who or what I am, let me go ahead and state, I'm NOT, let me emphasis this NOT passing judgment on those who live a different life style, I'm just asking questions that I don't understand the concept of!!!!
Okay girls who live that life style give me some comments................and before some smart ass ask ~ NO I'm not looking to experiment!!! My first experiment, should I ever want to do that is promised, three times over :lol. Let me just reinforce this issue, if I decide to take a walk on the wild side, I'm already spoken for :lol.
Okay girls give it your best explanation for us inquiring minds.....I can so see LoisLane laughing her ass off and sitting on pins and needles waiting for answers.........:lol I'm with ya Lois!!!
DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK ~ THEY DON'T DO IT OFTEN
I am a complete innocent on this packing with regards lesbians. Until you just mentioned it I had no idea.
Will take a stab in the dark and say that lesbians/gays would probably use a strap on in much the same way as a straight person to add to pleasure.
Shoot me those who know better ~grin~
I'll be back to find out from those in the know.
Oh! and I've had my curious moments so I'll never say never.
Love ya girlie, Sylvie
hell I just didnt know they made those things "soft" enough to wear all day. lmao Than of course another question is.. ummmmm if some lesibians "pack" do any gay men "unpack" lmao, ya know wear a pocket pussy? omg I can not believe I just asked that.
Don't mind me... now that you've posed that question I'm really curious to get the answer myself!
hell, I'm still trying to remmeber how that whole convo came up!!
and Jamie, one of these items is not 'required'!! heck, some of us have never used them, this is kind of like me asking you why you would need a viberator if you have a husband ;-)
well, you wanted a reply...LOL
Well T I'm glad to see you are still in such a great mood. I never said "required" items I just asked why ~ and vibrators with or without husbands ~ well in a nut shell hubby's can't always be around when the urge hits. *BIG GRIN* Lois ~ OMG TOOO FUNNY!!! Only you would ask that LOL!! I'm with ~e~ and Sylvia still waiting *smile*
...you know, I tried to comment on this several times and just gave up...
...so I'll just say hello and move on :^)...
hell I'm still waiting on the answer to the "unpacking"
OMG... this is too damn funny!
I'd be willing to guess that there will be a billion different answers out there but I think it would be similar to the men out there who love to to have a woman stick a finger in his ass. It doesn't mean they're gay (at least I don't think so) it just means they like that type of stimulation.
And before anyone asks, HELL NO I've never done that. I can't even stand getting my hands dirty! LMAO
Oh yeah, I forgot. Jamie, you know you like girls... you beg me on a regular basis! HA
As far as saying I won't do that, who knows. I mean, what the hell... if she's good, why not? LOL My husband says he'd just like to watch and assist when necessary!
Interesting question Jamie! I don't know the answer, but Red Eagle seems to have taken a good angle on this. I guess the strap on is an extra, not needed and only for extra fun? We have our toys and those of different sexual preferences can too!