In both of these attributes I have failed on a daily basis, however, with my children, I expect them to be better than I ever was and am now.
Yet, maybe it is my insecurities in life, that I'm finding family has become, more supporative than whom I call friends.
We all in some form or another live a different lifestyle....rather it be beliefs, religion, forms of discipline with our children, or lifestyles. Does that make any of us wrong ????????????? NO Does that make us any less FRIENDS and/or FAMILY? NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What about this makes us DIFFERENT???? Yet, because we are different does that mean we can't love another person for whatever reason??? I don't think so.......tho shall not judge!!! I really try to live by that rule and on the majroity I fail when it comes to that rule.
My feelings get hurt, I feel betrayed or not trusted, I feel like I'm replaceable.......those are my own personal feelings on situations I've lived in my life because in each of those cases I have been proven right.
When, please anyone tell me WHEN, will this change??? When I stop believeing in man kind??? If I stop doing that then I damage my children whom I am trying to raise to love EVERYONE AS THEY ARE ~ yet how do I protect my children if the same people to include family and friends hurt me so deeply that I begin questioning WHY???
Does anyone have an answer???? I'd love to hear it if you do!!!
NITE
Jamie
Hell honey, I've always been replaceable. As much as I try to stay "in touch" or keep up with some people, it seems like we all drift apart. I know I'm guilty as hell about not being around as much as I should, but I hope you know that you are not replaceable in my book. There's no one quite like the "queen of everything". [even if that is really only in your mind *wink*]
Love ya, Chick-a-poo, sorry you are having a rough night!!!! Glad I could be around to help take the edge off, some!!!
As i stated once and the f-ing post did not take..... you are doing a fine job teaching the youngins to be better people than you or I. No sweat there, they already are smarter and better mannered than me. Keep doing what you are doing and BTW doing me more in the process won't hurt my feelings either.
LOL
Pooh
I have never known anyone less replaceable than you are Jamie my dear...you are certainly one of a kind.
however, sometimes in peoples lives, they do tend to get wrapped up in them...whether good or bad, and they don't have the time they used to, to share every aspect of their lives the way they used to...it does not mean they love their friends any less, or think of them less often, just that they are wrapped up in something they don't have time to share...I am a bit confused about how you are 'betrayed' though, by this...
don't forget, paitence is a virtue...
and your timing still sucks :-Þ
J~ Sometimes you will come across people that are your friends one minute and gone the next. Some friends will stay forever and some won't. Some intentionally hurt you and some would rather die that hurt you. You are not replacable, you are Jaime, through and through. But please realize that it is hard to keep in touch sometimes, that doesn't meant the person you are speaking of loves you any less. Sometimes our lives (speaking from expierience) finally get a door opened for us and we take full advantage of the fun and hoopla that it has to offer. We get so caught up in oursleves and what is going on around us, that we do forget about everything else, because for once in this life we feel like it is our turn to shine and have fun, regardless of who gets pissed. No, you do not want to give up on mankind, but you do need to realize that not everything is always going to be as it has always been. People do chance and grow, and sometimes in that people drift. But that does not mean you are loved any less than before, it just menas that something has come up in life and that is now taking a priority, and as a friend you a forced to the back burner for a little while. I can not say that it is right or wrong, because the same has happened to me and I have done the same (just ask my best friend cheryl). But wether it is right or wrong, it is a part of life.
I love you Queenie, sorry things are down for yah right now, I am here if you want to talk.
Oh jeezzzz....the world goes to shit when I travel, doesn't it? LOL
Now that I'm back in town, what the hell is going on? Are you ok? Do I need to kick someone's ass (or just my own) for hurtin' my bitch?
You know, or at least I hope you do, that I love ya... and you and I both suffer from the same problem. Sometimes we hold people at arm's length to avoid letting ourselves get hurt. I'm the world's worst. Really.
I'll give you a call today after I go pay the attorney to KEEP MY HUSBAND OUT OF JAIL, since he forgot about his ticket while we were out of town. I got my cast off and pin out yesterday so I'm hurtin' like a bitch (what else is new)... so bear with me!
Love ya tons babe... hang in there!
Ditto, the first half of Kristi's comment....she wrote it well......why try to duplicate a great job?
Speed's right...your kids are great.
I don't know what I've missed, but I hope you're feeling better now.
I don't think people are replaceable at all. It just feels that way when instead of sulking on the absence of one person, we choose to fill it with another person. Thus occupying our time, but NOT actually replacing a person.
Does that make sense?
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