Stuck In Teenage Drama Hell!!!!

Friday the 17th, Q16 ask if he can go and spend the night over at Nannie and Poppies. We tell him we don't care as long as they don't have plans for the night to call them. Q16 and Poppie had plans for the next morning anyways so I just figured Q16 didn't want to wake up at the crack of dawn and thought nothing more about it.

I go to work the next day and Speed and I decide when I get off work that we are going to go out dancing for once in ages........*I believe I posted in the post below about our little outing*. So I go into Q16's room to let him know that he is babysitting Little Ms Prissy Princess whom is sound asleep!!!

I walk in his room and he is laying on his bed snuggled up too Charlie's large airlanding strip ass, listening to music and acting like he has lost his best friend. So I ask him what is wrong..........he informs me nothing........I tell him I know better to tell me what is up. He says no I'll talk to you tomorrow you and dad go out and have a good time you guys haven't gone out in a long time and deserve it.

Yupe I stop dead in my tracks...........something is bad wrong.........so I sit down and tell him talk to me what is up.....it begins like this ~

Q16: Mom do you trust me?

Me: Of course I trust you why?

Q16: Would you trust me to go over to *insert name of girl in question* house?

Me: Yes after I met her mother and father

Q16: That will never happen!!!

Me: Then you'll never go over there!!! :smile

Q16: Well mama when I said go over there I meant without her parents being home.

Me: LAUGHING HARD!!! Followed up with HELL NO!!!

Q16: Mama, I really need to talk to you but before I tell you anything I need you to promise me you won't make a snap judgement, you won't yell, and you will think before you react!!!

Me: Well, all I can do is try Q16, but I won't promise anything not liking the feeling I'm getting much less not knowing what you are about to say!!

Q16: She thinks she's pregnant!!!

Me: SPEECHLESS!!!! Dead silence ~ I'm gasping for air ~ I finally find a voice and say Okay is it yours?????

Q16: No!!!

Needless to say much descussion went from there but that wasn't even the BEGINING of our living hell to date!!! In summary ~ this girl on that night I was told was abuse, has been disowned by her father who kicked her out after having sex, has been raped, and is 16 and has been sexually active before she was the age 14 and before she was "supposedly rapped".............on that particular night I was very sympathic towards this girl but protecting my son first!!! Q16 asked if I would purchase her a pregnancy test which I refused to do!!! We talked and he told me what he thought I needed to hear I later found out and I told him I have to think about all this Q16 before I can make any rational decisions..........

So on Monday, I inform him, I've thought this through and that I think it is best that he end any form of relationship with this girl until we can evaluate the situation better. He agrees with me and shows me a letter that she has written him professing her love towards him and her desire to have Q16 in her babies life even if the "father" wins custody of the baby and she moves in with him.

So on Tuesday, Q16 tells us that he has told her that he is breaking all ties with her but will remain her friend and talks her into going to the nurses office to get a pregancy test done, which according to Q16 before the baseball game it is negative. He also informs me that he won't be calling her nor her calling our home either..........he realizes that it is a huge mess that he doesn't need to be involved in.

Right there I should have known I was in trouble....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Because YES it gets worse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MUCH MUCH MUCH WORSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

However, it is late and this is long enough I will continue this tomorrow night ~ for the rest of the story as I know it to date *rolling eyes*.......

IF IT HAS TIRES OR TESTICLES YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE PROBLEMS WITH IT!!!!!