As a mother, I know I'm a strict one, however, with a teenager in the house I remember my teenage years with strict parents and I at least try to give some rope to express their freedom.
Examples: I allow my kids when they are aggervated, mad or whatever to express themselves. Even if it is disrespectful, which during those times it is very disrespectful. But I allow it for them to get it out of their system and then we are able to talk about it and come to an agreement. I also am very VERY firm about the fact about drinking ~ note for the teenager ONLY!!! If he wants something to drink all he has to do is ask.
Lets face it, teenagers are going to be teenagers, they are going to try it. My view is this I would rather have him try it at home than go somewhere else drink and then drive.
Well the WRATH of MAMA is lose!!!
My very intelligent son (note HIGH SARCASM THERE) not only went out one night, drank then drove, but LIED TO ME ABOUT IT AFTER HE HAD BEEN BUSTED!!!!!!!!!!! I told him I couldn't prove it YET so he had the benifit of the doubt, but today I could PROVE IT and then he admitted it.
Yes my head spun around several times and came close to pea soup being spewed very where!!!! I'm so livid I can not see straight!!!!
I'm sure I have some that never comment that will read this and think that I'm too strict and that is the cause of this ~ welcome to my fan club ~ however this isn't about me!!!!! It is about my child's inability to stand on his own two feet and say NO!!!!! It is about my eldest child's bright future with one or more bad decisions being flushed down the toliet or God Forbid 6 ft under or putting someone else there!!!
I so have to calm down before I make my choice of punishment!!!!!!! No matter how livid I am the worst part of all of this is my huge disappointment in my eldest.
Now if anyone comments about if I didn't drink my child wouldn't be interested ~ I swear I might have to turn my anger to you!!! I lived in a home that drinking was a NO NO it only made me want to try it more!!!! So let's all be smart and NOT go there!!!!!
Can I just scream GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Thank you and good nite!!!
Jamie